I find it hard to identify with people getting upset by offensive PMs. One great advantage of the Mudcat PM system over most other forms of messaging is that you never need to read anything you don't want to - just tick the box in the Delete column, hit Process, job done. I got a PM this evening from somebody who I assumed was trying to continue a discussion I was done with; I've no idea what they were trying to say and don't care what I missed, that PM is irretrievably gone.

"bobad" can send me all the offensive Mudcat PMs she wants. I'm never going to read any of them so why should I be bothered?