Senoufrou, can't you stay around and just look at the Music posts? The BS section is at the bottom and easily ignored. I don't understand why you need to abandon the whole site...??? Or, if a music thread gets nasty (as they certainly can) just bail out of it altogether - I'll bet the mods would even delete all your comments in it, if you wanted to remove yourself from the discussion 100%. They're usually pretty obliging about stuff anything reasonable.

Wish you'd change your mind... horribleness is everywhere on the internet (in real life too). I've had to reinforce my own mental defenses a hundredfold in the past few years - just going online too often feels like being under siege, even when nobody is specifically targeting you. The negative-overload sure does make ya develop coping strategies

It's a measure of the affection Catters obviously hold you in that I haven't read (and would hate to see) a single Bye-Felicia snark from anyone. That in itself is quite an accomplishment. Reconsider?