Suppose you are a cop dealing with crime. Crime is still somewhat abstract until he becomes the victim, Your POV is changed forever,

A bigot in this sense is a victim. A person with an abstract POV may not understand especially if they see themselves as being their ego. The greatest con job consciousness can commit is making us think we are who or what our ego says we are. We are more than that. When ego is no longer the boss, we go from being humans to human beings.
The same goes for victims.