Let me expand my prior comments;

Ego boundaries make enemies that do not exist Joe. I speak in second religious-psychoanalysis terms. I don't expect you to get it right away except to say no one is attacking you, except yourself.

This is all naturally confounding until you have the ah ha moment

Finding the ah ha moment is most challenging for a person to achieve but if you do you will know We are not bigots, we are not the enemy and some religious teachings will be seen in a new light