Greg F, as long as others try to define what I experience, see, feel, say, and mean, I will decline advice based on that skewed view. In general I do what I expect others to do-- stick to my own best sense of what's what, make as much sense as I can every day, and expect others to do the same.

I have heard this particular piece of humor beofre, this Dr. Laura thing, and have had quite a bit of time to think about it. If you want to define a strong opinion as sanctimony, because it happens to be about a religion matter, that's up to you. But it does not further real communication that you do.

~S~