It looks like this to me:A: This is offensive.
B: Lighten up.
A: This is offensive because of blah blah blah.
B: This is not offensive because of yada-yada-yada. Lighten up.
A: This is offensive, can't you see? Yip yip yip.
B: This is not offensive, what's wrong with you? Lighten up.
and so forth.
I don't really see any communication taking place.
Alex