Hi, Katcina - I don't think any woman should use her own name on the Internet. I suppose that actually, nobody should use their real name in any public area of the Internet, but I refuse to be that paranoid (but you will notice in the FAQ that I take other precautions). You may want to take a look at the Privacy section (click) of the Mudcat FAQ.
Wydat 12 is suppose to look at this part (click) of the FAQ, but he may need to scroll down one screen to the bold red print about our lack of censorship.

-Joe Offer-