The other thing I'll say before stopping is that I've been through enough here, and elsewhere. People do things because that's what they want. If they leave and blame it on someone else, it's their decision. Nobody else's. There's been enough going on here that's driven me mildly nuts, but I know if I say it made me leave, well, it didn't.
I decided to leave.
I did.
And it's ok if other people make the decision to leave.