Another one who misses Senofou's presence here, and sorry that she felt the need to drop out for what I hope is only a while, and not permanently. Enjoyed our common bonds fe East Anglia and Scotland, and her hilarious inventiveness, e.g. The Mudcat Recovery Ward.
I learned a long time ago that if you are up against it with another Mudcatter who is being less than nice to you, the best thing to do is to keep schtumm and not give them any more ammunition to fire back.