BWL what you suggest does not happen in an automoton deterministic universe in the way you thought.
Now if you see that entangled particles do not end in divorce then you may surrender to an emergent universe and you will understand.
A word to the wise: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MjGgqcyLpug

It took me 50 years to understand the double slit experiment, the underlying reality and birth dreams but now without bragging, it is clear as a bell. Phenomena I too thought was impossible, now works better than a charm in a way far different than previously imagined. In short it really works. I can illucidate if needed.