(Hi Bill)Jeri, in my case, part of it was that no matter what I did most people mis-saw me so badly that I just got sick of it for a bit. I didn't think UP names.... I just had names pop into my head every time I posted, when I ran the thread on my name change. It was a way of unplugging from all the expectations... and a way of indicating the mood in which I was posting. I've said this before, it's a lot like flinging off your bra on a day when it's TOO DAMN TIGHT. Know what I mean, girls?
But I do know people like pegs to hang their hats on, and I am trying to remember to add a name when I am cruising around... and I would hope that people know I am no flamer, regardless.
~S~