Oh goodness Bonzo, I do hope your wife is okay! Funnily enough my sister was most reluctant to 'give in' and go into hospital, but she got to a point where she knew she would probably die alone in her house without oxygen and a ventilator.
Please don't misunderstand me. If our neighbours and half the village want to do this, who's to stop them? It's just I'd feel an absolute wally, and can't see the point.