I agree with Spaw on this one, too. But, ya know, who ever this is really knows how to push our buttons,no? Kids, SO's, emotional pain, etc. But, the flip side is:

If ever anyone should really need any good advice on the subjects, its here! We all do know that people in emotional pain come to the Internet, and Mudcat members tend to come to Mudcat first.........so, perhaps all is not in vain, after all.