Whizzy, you got to remember: "You can please some of the people all of the time; you can please all of the people all of the time, but you can never please all of the people all of the time." and then there is:

"To thine own self, be true"

Choose your people, and choose your arena, OK? Prioritze, woman, prioritize. "Love yourself as you love others"....etc, etc, etc.

I gather you're not in much better shape than I am, but remember- - -it's FEBBLUEBERRY!!!