YEP, thas me, 'cept I is a cynical Bitch........not a bastard. Besides, I been there, and this is not exactly the way to solve problems, now is it?

Damn few people have ever accused me of being a "nice" person........and those that have were wrong. Female, helpful, guilty, passive/agressive, depressive, all those fit, but "bastard" being primarily Male, does not. Sorry, flattop, hon, but I've learned to laugh at this sort of stuff. And to figure out who/what is really in need.