Ah, but Jeri, you're the one doing the feeding.
I wish you could see how sad it is that you'd say that, but it's not my problem.

I found a friend I hadn't seen for thirty-some years, and my cousin found me.

When first got on it, I turned into a 13-year-old again. Giving and getting fish and plants with Catspaw. But that was before the ads, and the trolls, and the data miners. It was a lot better before the primary focus change to be profit, as it does with so much else.
But one has to learn about Facebook, use what's good about it, and avoid what isn't. And if it's too hard to figure that stuff out, it's better you leave it alone. Bitching about anything because you don't understand it just looks like you're ranting at a train that left the station without you on it. I DO have friends that don't want to deal with Facebook, but they don't get upset when others do. I don't understand why anyone would do that.

or maybe I do.