Good question and "I have two children" followed by the "others" left home? "He's not a bad person" but would like to have kept you "barefoot and pregnant?!" That's a little over the top there, Mil, filled up your wellies and then some, imo. Clever explanation as to why we may never see more bait from you, tho...he's in control, no access, etc...

well, like Sorcha said, we've made lemonade from a lemon and there is good info here for people who are real and may need it.