Geez there are some cynical people here- you surprise me! There is so much in what Milly has said that has parrallels with my situation, and it takes a great deal of courage to share personal details as she has. Spaw chooses to make a joke of it and you jump on the bandwagon?

Just glad I didn't go undercover as a guest to ask for help when I was in that vulnerable position...

Milly/ Mils, send me a PM (you may need to become a member first) if you want to talk.

Noreen