Just another thought, even more difficult. If we rid ourselves of all such definitions - man, woman, black, white, Christian, Muslim, etc. and were all just people, perhaps the world may be a better place.

We live near a park and I love watching the little children play. They don't care what gender, colour or creed their playmates are. The differences don't seem to matter up to a certain age. Something changes them in later life. Peer pressure? Conditioning? The current education system? Change whatever that is and we are on a winner :-)