I probably do not quite understand what Saul is saying/asking but that's ok. I think I agree with him. Esp that last sentence!!

Not everyone: knows that words hurt; which words hurt which people; why it might be better to not hurt people -too much? or deliberately? or mindlessly? No hope for the mindless, we just have to live with them... or not.

It is good to recognize when to be silent; "It is better to be silent and be thought a fool than to open your mouth and remove all doubt".

I worked with a child who was a "selective mute"; It would seem that something happened - someone said something to him? Did something to him? - in nursery school. He talked a blue streak at home but not a word in school -- His second year in Kindergarten with the same wonderful teacher and the support and encouragement of many, he broke through!

The use of words could/should? be viewed as a big responsibility.

In a fit of annoyance because my work shoes were not where I left them and I had to make lunch in my rubber boots, I muttered, "If you don't expect anything, you won't be disappointed!" Found out much later that a dear friend overheard me and thought I was referring to a relationship he was working on!

So, what words? spoken where? and when? to whom?

And, can we ever know for sure if our words will help or harm...?