I am Steve, Stephen to some, and I frequently speak of my wife, Mrs Steve. You are Donuel "X" (or possibly not "Donuel" at all?), so how would I know whether you are a boy/girl/other gender? Some on here I know because of their name, others I've teased out one way or another down the years. A few I know not and I don't care to poke around to find out. Let me know if you like but no pressure. It's entirely in your hands. And worry not, for after all, shall there be womanly times or shall we die?