If we were haters and we become whatever it is we hate, then those on the far right who'd like to kill my gay brother, et alia, will become gay, we would end up wanting to kill them because after all we would have become that which we supposedly hate and, so, things will balance out, right, and no more "petty" differences!

Life is not all sweetness and light, people! It is healthy to air our differences and have conflicting notions of what is good for the world.