Ah ha!Found it! The Caledonian Society of Hawai'i published a book recently called "The Story of Scots In Hawai'i", which I'll have my dad send me. Doh! Now I actually seem to recall Dad mentioning it last week, and even saying that my grandmother's name is mentioned in it (she was the maid of honor at the wedding of a very prestigious Scottish lady whose name eludes me.)
hmmm...I feel a song coming on...*grin*
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