I think you're right Donuel. Anger seems to me to be a natural emotion, but it's how one handles it that matters. One can seethe internally, but one shouldn't attack others either verbally or physically. I used to have to preach that to my school pupils when I was teaching. They could get furious in a sudden 'squit' (Norfolk slang for a bit of a slanging match). A handshake and a kind word between them usually worked.