Dorothy, you waited so long to get a diagnosis after being ignored, it has to be frustrating now trying to not be ignored any more.
On Saturday I emailed a book review to a friend in west Texas and heard back that her husband had passed away a few weeks ago from a rare cancer that is typically diagnosed very late. She is a retired nurse so did his hospice care at home. "Sadly this has been the worst year of my life," she wrote. They didn't have children (and her cat died earlier this year also. Sigh.)
They were vegetarian, and probably ate a lot of grains and wheat. I'm reading about diabetes and dementia in relation to wheat, but it seems the insulin response to wheat may also help cancers grow (instead of the early cells being killed off by the immune system.) So many theories, finding proof is the challenge regarding the Western Diet. As the saying goes, no one gets out of this alive, but how we go . . .
Today I'm digging the daffodil bulbs out of one bed in the yard to create a clearing for my political signs. I have to get free compost at the bunker the city parks maintain near me. I'll put mulch over this area and use the spot for seasonal annual flowers. That way if the Bermuda grass overruns it I can dig out the grass, put down more mulch, and not worry about anything else that spends the entire year in the bed.
I have a box of file folders sitting out collecting dust, waiting for donation, and I need to decide where to offer them. Before that I'll check out some of the shelved boxes in the office closet, I probably have more stuff to go.
There are a couple of completed jigsaw puzzles to drop off at the library, and some games in the hall closet. NOTE: I just checked on those games and found the top shelf and boxes covered with rat or squirrel droppings. Ugg. Looks like a long-stay hotel and I can't see how they got in there. I'll wipe down the shelf and all of the boxes with a liquid cleaner (I'm not that much into bleach). Most of my coats and jackets are hanging below that shelf - I guess I'll have to wash a lot of those on general principles.