Whether stated as an opinion or as a fact, a hurtful comment still hurts. I despise comments that have no purpose (whether informational or otherwise) other than to hurt. Saying "That was a stupid comment" is, in my opinion, a pointless and hurtful opinion. If you disagree with my comment, tell my why; stupidity has a way of standing out without needing to be acknowledged.

That being said, I would rather read an "over the top" posting that has some substance than a banal one. If you are adding to the dialogue, I will forgive a lapse in manners. I prefer manners, but I don't want people to water down their opinions because they're afraid they will offend someone by speaking their mind. After all, if you don't tell me what you really think, how can I hope to change your mind?

Goodnight, all.
Bart,the baron of banality