I'm sorry for all your losses, It is a feeling we all will share. AS the years go by some of us will stand totally alone with only our memories to comfort us.As we visit the graves and place our flowers we think of the empty chairs at home. Sometimes we tell them our little jokes & stories or sing a song to them as if death hasn't come and taken them from us. One of the hardest things is there is no one left to share our memories with.I'm not that old-all my people seem to exit this world at one time. There is no cure for the loneliness, atleast I haven't found it. Mudcat has helped though. Thanks Kat For a healing thread. Slainte Mickey191