Milly, remember it is not all your fault. No matter what anyone else says, you are not to blame for everything. I left a violent, domineering partner after he fractured my skull. I should have left him earlier. He tried to make me see that it was all my fault that he liked to drink too much and hit people who couldn't hit back, either physically, emotionally or financially. Even the counsellor I saw tried to make me see that it was my fault he got mad at me. Keep telling yourself - it isn't all my fault, and believe it.

LTS