Karen, please don't tell him to get fast food. I'm struggling with a cooking/weight gain problem here and really haven't found the answer.

Hubby and I have a wonderful friend, an elderly lady, who cooks a big meal for us everyday at noon. Since I don't get hungry at night, I DON'T COOK ANYMORE! Hubby, on the other hand wants to eat a big meal at noon and another at night. I refuse to feel guilty about not cooking even though not a day goes by that several people don't make *unkind* remarks about my not cooking. Hubby eats fast food (would never take the time to cook) and is gaining weight like crazy. What's a girl to do?