Thanks for the advice guys. Since we were at work I didn't feel I could "smack him upside the head" as I mentally pictured myself doing. I guess I was really wondering because my husband is pretty much the same. I'm expected to cook for the four of us when I get home from work. If I'm too tired he'll at least fix a meal for himself and the kids but NEVER for me! I guess that really irks me (are those violins I hear the the background?). Oh well, my NEXT spouse will be picked from the Mudcat group ;-)