Firecat,I'm gonna make my husband do half the housework
If you have to -- or try to -- MAKE him do anything, your relationship is heading for trouble.
Why people think they should be able to force one another to do anything just blows me away.
Are we not all free agents? Are we not all human beings? Coercion is for dogs that eat your roses or piss on your petunias. Not for people trying to build a shared life together for the long haul.
Alex