Hmm, I went through the wearing black phase (now I'm just into archaeological hippy-grunge scruff), but was more of an industrial goth (nine inch nails as opposed to nephilim). I have a friend who's still a goth at the ripe old age of 29. He hates other goths and calls them cliquey and snobbish. He refuses to be categorised as one, despite the fact that he gets up in the morning and decides on which shade of black to wear for the day. We went out to a Hallowe'en fancy dress night at a club a few years ago and all he did was stick on a wizard's hat. He has gorgeous waist-length black hair. Everyone thought it was attached to the hat, which didn't go down to well with him as they tried to pull it.