I'm with Kim on this one. Some times it's an emphasizer & sometimes it's really a plea. There was a time when I'd hear some one say "God, ... " & I'd ask them if they really wanted God involved with whatever it was. Usually I got a blank stare because they had not realized they'd even said it. That's in vain to me. I think it's the thoughtless use that's the problem & I suspect the Muslims who say it all the time may be equally thoughtless.I do occasionally hear someone say, "God willing, we will meet same time next year," or the like. It can be truly meant & maybe appear a bit sanctimonious, or just be a throw away line. I think our (US) culture is such that we feel uncomfortable hearing & using it. Whenever my aunt's mother-in-law talked about her mother it was, "My mother, God rest her soul, ..." That hit me oddly when I was 12.
Weird, we probably feel less uncomfortable with a vain "Oh, God" than a really meant "God willing"
There are a number of religious groups that will not swear oaths in court because there's a passage in the Bible where Jesus says not to swear by anything (heaven, Jerusalem), but to let your Yes & No be for real. How did our 'Christian' nations get so far from following this injunction that we actually have people swear by the Bible?