I feel that there is never a justification for anonymity. I too play guessing games, but I've learned to temper my reactions with time to reflect. However, my first impressions, though usually too strong, seem to bear out truth in the end. I was stalked by someone who knew too much about my personal history shortly after I came here. Some statements were just my paranoia; others were right on. Also, on guessing games, I predict who will post to a particular thread and what they will say. I believe in remaining open and honest, but this gut feeling/stereotyping has kept me alive. I study personalities around here, and have learned a lot about myself just by observing my reactions to people. Sadly to say, I've been disappointed in some I had grown to like.