Oh, kat.....my heart is on the ground with this. You have helped me so many times, I want to help you with this one. There is nothing sadder than the death of a child, no matter whose she is.
Bella herself is now in another world but I will send healing, thoughts and prayers to her, her family and her friends. I can't imagine living through something like this, but I know parents have......mi bella carissima.