Ooops! I forgot to say that you eat the bananas.
Time should sort out the confidence thing. The more you do it the less nerve-wracking it is. If you listen to everyone else you'll find most people make mistakes & are a bit imperfect and yet you stil think they're good. I always thought that everyone else was mega-perfect and mega-confident & that I was a bit cheeky to even try. Then the thought struck me that if I think that everyone else is 'proper' singers, then its quite likely that some other people are thinking the same & that for them I come into the heading of 'proper singer'. If you have that thought in mind then it makes it easier to do well - its another self-fulfilling prophecy.

Kris