There are two things my husband and I are almost guaranteed to fall out over-- those are my driving and our attempts to play music together. Music is what brought us together-- we met at a session we both regularly attended and I found out later that all the soppy love songs he used to trot out were for me... aw...

We share a love of anything Celtic or Old Time or Bluegrass-- and ideally would like to do it together in a band. But whenever we play together, we become Mr. and Mrs. Bickerson. So does anybody who does perform with spouse have any advice on how to do so successfully?

FrankieB