Nancy/Mudlark, I am sorry for your loss. It must be difficult, but you are right...there are songs out there for you, when your heart is ready.

In the meantime, please do join us. You've got a knack for putting things right and I agree with flattop (now there's a scary thought!)you've come up with a great new proverb!

Good luck with your buildings and getting on.

Thanks,

kat