My worst experiences with stage fright were years ago but as I recall them they were very bad. My sympathies but there is hope. I would suggest that you pick a tune you know so cold that it is almost boring for you to play. Make it a funny or light tune. Tom Paxton's Natural Girl For Me" was my choice for years. Pick some in the audience and sing it only to them. Girl friends or wives, husbands, sisters, pick a friendly face. After that first tune, things will usually get better. Remember, not everyone has ever heard your stale old stand by, everything is always new to someone and that is were your approval from the audience will come from. Its that approval that gets rid of the screamin' willies for you. Of course singin a one shot in a church or at a wedding is always tough and maybe a pint or two before you go will give you the courage and lubrication you need.

DonMeixner