Thanks for the clarification Midchuck.Yes "whom" would be grammatical, but "Who Do You Love" just hit me as I was looking throught the thread list.
O.K. here is my list: Mary, Lisa, Andie, music in general and particular, most of my friends' cats, "Life, Liberty and the Pursuit of Happiness," New Hampshire's Constitutional "Right of Revolution," Winnie-the-Pooh, Key West, Ireland, and myself (because it is good to love oneself)
pax yall & thanks for the responses!