It's a bugger being dumped, and you rarely get over it completely. My sympathies.
But la donna e semper mobile (just like men, really), and sometimes you have to concede that there is just no accounting for taste. After all, look at all those deluded women who seem to find that shit Jeffrey Archer irresistible.

Now, can I get done for contempt by stating here, while the trial is still on, that the man is a renowned philanderer, liar and thief, with the morals of an alleycat and who wouldn't know the truth if it hit him square between the eyes? He has regularly used prostitutes and for him to make any pretence of "normal family life" or whatever he likes to call it is the height of hypocrisy. The only reason he sued the Daily Star (and won) and not the News of the World (which first broke the story of his paying off a prostitute) is because the Star rehashed the NoW piece and did it badly, stating carelessly that he had shagged the woman on a particular date, which the NoW was careful not to to imply.
And his books are crap

Sorry about that. Some things just need to be got off the chest.