I sing & play bodhran, sometimes I do both at the same time, it's my choice. I went to a session a while back & a drummer played on every song & tune & when I started to sing he started to play along so I placed my palm over his drum so he couldn't play, until he gave up & stopped. When the song was over he told me he's been playing this session for years & I quickly told him if I wanted a drum played behind me didn't he think I'd play myself, I then told him to get the fu%$#@&k out of my face & let him know I thought he was an unaware, selfish shit who didn't mind ruining a good time for all & said it loud enough for most of the others at the session knew what took place. I think later others also had a talk with himI've never seen him since. Good rhythums to bad rubbish. Barry