Morty, it can't be that way, OK? OK? OK? You take care of yourself and the kids. Let us help you and don't bloody worry about us. I don't believe that crap and neither should you.

Last Dec. my dear, dear,dearest friend Brent did this too. I am still angry with him; might be angry for years, but he is not in ANY HELL whatsoever........it may take time for him to heal too, but he will heal and healing doesn't happen in hell.