Thank you all so much for your kindness and your thoughts on this. I honestly don't know what I'd do without you, and I hope I never have to find out.

In my times of sanity, I KNOW there isn't a Hell, and David wouldn't be there even if there were.....funny thing about grieving though, it has sod all to do with common sense or sanity.I seem to be pray to whatever mad notion springs into my head with little or no control over the stupidity quotient.

Anyway, normal service will be resumed as soon as possible,and in the meantime thank you for your forebearance, your wisdom and your concern.This isn't the first time you guys have dug me out of the brown and smelly stuff and I guess it won't be the last, I can only be very grateful that you are there to do it and care enough to go get the shovels again.

Much love

Terri xxxx