Mortee, darlin'...normal service b'damned! You take all of the time you need and don't worry about us. We will be here for you, on the Mudcat and off and as long as some of us hear from you and know that you are plugging along we can let the others know and we'll all not worry.

This is still such a raw wound with hardly any time past, yet, give yourself some time, sweetie. For awhile recently the only thing that worked for me, to get me through the day, was to take it one hour at a time. It sounds kind of silly, but it really helped; kept my mind from going off on whatif tangents and the like.

Holding you in my heart and sending lots of love and hugs,

kat