Kjell, just stay away from her. You have upset her and anything you do now will make it worse. If you love someone you want the best for that person, and the best that she chooses now is for you to leave her alone.

Perhaps if you can do this, friendship may be possible at some stage in the future, I don't know.

I do know that hassling her will just upset her more and drive her further away.

Noreen