Gloredhel, don't worry, you can be a Mudcatette in waiting and when your 18th rolls around, you can be a full-fledged member and you don't have to do anything you don't want to! Well, except keep those lids polished up, straighten out the tassels, take the costumes to the dry cleaners...oops, sorry, no Cinderellas here! You just hang in there and we'll have a big b-day party for you,'k?Welcome to the Mudcat!!kat