Mark and John.....Good point on the power end of things and you are certainly correct. I didn't mean to come off so naive as to equate love and sex as the same thing....I don't. The point is still the same though.........So many things tie into personal relationships and the human animal adds much to the mix.

Allen Sherman once wrote a very humorous, but spot-on piece about animals and sex versus the human animal and sex. One of the things he used in discussing the problems of humans and the power play end of sex and why we have so many more problems than say, an aardvark, is because we indulge in "Thinkery-Fuckery" instead of just "fuckery." Hilarious work, but he made some excellent points.

Spaw