Well, I, once again, see I spoke too soon. There are 2 sides to every coin. I thought this was the only thread started on this important topic. Rose, by starting those numerous other threads you have possibly diluted your good message. I suspect you have some good friends. PLEASE talk to them. You seem to need to do that right now. Thanks for your heartfelt information. I, for one, am glad to've heard it.Art Thieme