EJ, I'm on the other end in this situation, and I'm telling you straight that you will have your heart broken all over again. Be strong, and you walk away this time, telling her to get back in touch when she hasn't got so much on, and having stayed that way a good while.Tough love, but I assure you that is the only possible way that you might possibly salvage her undivided love.
Good luck
Skipjack